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My most popular free virtual parenting workshop is BACK 5 Brain Hacks that will CHANGE your LIFE is happening at the end of this week January 15th and 16th. If you want the link to register for free, comment “five brain hacks” on this video and I’ll shoot you the link Space is limited, so don’t

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Comment “I want the hacks” to register for the FREE virtual workshop tonight or tomorrow morning. It’s called the “Five Brain Hacks that will Change Your Life” In the live workshop you’ll learn: -How to parent in the moment to avoid the MAJORITY of tantrums -A proven script for navigating big

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Comment “I want your book” for links to buy my book, physical or audio. This might be an unpopular opinion…. But research consistently shows that parents who empower kids to meet their own needs, raised kids who are more confident and resilient than parents who do everything for their kids.

I understand that what we see is scary. It is scary to see people being executed on the streets of American cities. Do not let the fear win. Fear is the mind killer

How to talk to kids about immigration (without demonizing immigrants)

I’ve never had so many requests to share one of my stories to the main feed. This is from the sermon that I preached yesterday.

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Punishment doesn’t work. Connection and Consequences do.

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What do YOU think? Do screens contribute to ADHD? Citation: Wu JB, Yang Y, Zhou Q, Li J, Yang WK, Yin X, Qiu SY, Zhang J, Meng M, Guo Y, Chen JH, Chen Z. The relationship between screen time, screen content for children aged 1-3, and the risk of ADHD in preschools. PLoS One. 2025 Apr

25 years from now, we'll regret how we managed kids' emotions with screens, let AI think for them, and especially the rise of online sports gambling. #ParentingMistakes #FutureRegrets #ScreenTime #AI #GenerativeAI #YouthMentalHealth #GamblingAddiction #OnlineGambling #MentalHealthAwareness

We quit screens cold turkey with our 4-year-old 3 weeks ago and the difference is startling. His behavior, regulation, and cooperation are 10x better. He's happier, more stable, and plays independently for hours. It was like a factory reset for a happy kid! #NoScreenTime #ParentingHacks

If you want a copy of my book, just comment “I want your book” and I’ll send you a link Stop power struggles with your 4-year-old! Play the 'Daddy Robot' game for 5-10 mins each morning. Let them program you to meet their need for control. This makes them cooperative all day! #ParentingHacks

Comment "I want 78" to get links to this podcast episode sent to your DMs Kids cooperate better when they feel connected first. Instead of calling out, get their attention, connect, then give the instruction. Give them autonomy within boundaries. #ParentingTips #Connection #GentleParenting

Comment "I want 78" to get links to this podcast episode sent to your DMs Four-year-olds push boundaries like it's a job! Constant negotiations and whining about established rules can be exhausting. If you get stricter, they dig in more. How to make it less constant? #ParentingTips #ToddlerLife

Education is important, but does school truly foster critical thinking or problem-solving? Evidence suggests it's fundamentally broken. We need reform, but bureaucracy and outdated systems hold it back. #EducationReform #SchoolSystem #CriticalThinking #ProblemSolving #Learning #Education

I had AI design me the ideal child's day with the goal being healthy development and lifelong success. Spoiler we do the opposite. The ideal: slow mornings, hours of free play, social conflict, short skill-building, chores, boredom, more play, and connection. A stark contrast to the hurried,

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Before anyone comes for me, this is not about pressure, perfection, or turning your kid into a tiny overachiever. When I say “high standards,” I don’t mean: ❌ Constant correction ❌ Unrealistic expectations ❌ Pushing kids past their limits I mean: ✔️ Believing your child is capable ✔️ Letting them

Let me add some context here because I know how this can sound. This is not saying you don’t love your kids. And it’s definitely not saying you need to be endlessly calm or never get frustrated. Parenting is hard. You’re going to have moments where you’re short, where you snap, where you don’t

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Overtired kids resist bedtime. Cortisol spikes 40%! Don't threaten. Try the Hallway Reset: low stimulation, 3 deep breaths, touch, and a 5-min check-in. Predictability signals safety, not stimulation.

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Follow for more Toddler Brain Hacks. Toddlers hear 'running' when you say 'stop running.' Their brains can't process 'stop.' Instead, tell them the behavior you want: 'walking,' 'hands in lap,' 'put it down.' Positive commands are easier for their developing minds. #ToddlerTips #ParentingHacks

Comment "Send me 81" to get links to episode 81 of the podcast: Risky Play Might Save Your Kid Kids who avoid healthy risks become more anxious. Confidence isn't reassurance; it's built on competence. Are we protecting too much, hindering their ability to trust themselves and handle life's

If you're interested I have a new children's book that helps kids ACTUALLY process their feelings coming out at the end of the month. Comment "Send me the feelings book" and I'll shoot you a link to preorder Validating kids' feelings is crucial, but stopping there is harmful. Connect, then help

Comment "Send me epsiode 81" for links to the full video episode The hardest part of parenting? Realizing your job isn't to shield them from pain, but to help them build confidence through challenges. The world isn't gentle, so let's raise kids who can meet it. #ParentingTips #GentleParenting

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Yelling at kids? It's not ideal. It overwhelms their system and doesn't teach. Stay calm, stay clear. Your regulation is their biggest teacher. #ParentingTips #CalmParenting #GentleParenting #EmotionalRegulation #ParentingHacks #ChildDevelopment #ConsciousParenting #MomLife #DadLife

Comment, "I want 82" to get links to this podcast episode sent to your DMs Play is how kids build their brains. It develops attention, problem-solving, and emotional processing. It's how they learn to master skills and build focus. It's essential! #EarlyChildhood #PlayBasedLearning

Toddler discipline isn't about long talks. It's about immediate, consistent cause and effect. Break the pattern with clear boundaries, not lectures. They learn by experience. #ToddlerDiscipline #ParentingTips #ChildDevelopment #PositiveParenting #GentleParenting #ParentingHacks #MomLife #DadLife

Interested in the podcast? Just comment “I want the podcast” for links. New episodes Tuesday and Thursday. My secret to toddlers getting along? 4 hours of scheduled 'do-nothing' time every Thursday. Less pressure, more decompression. Siblings need time together. #ParentingHacks #SiblingLove

Artemis II astronaut names a bright spot on the moon 'Carol' after his late wife. His crewmates embrace him in zero gravity as they weep, millions of miles from Earth. Love's reach. #ArtemisII #SpaceExploration #LoveAndLoss #Humanity #Inspiration #Moon #NASA #Astronauts #Storytelling

Bossy toddler? Don't negotiate, lead. Their brain is driven by limits testing. Hold the container. Calm, clear leadership is love. #ParentingTips #ToddlerLife #ChildDevelopment #CalmParenting #ParentingHacks #EmotionalRegulation #PositiveDiscipline #MomLife #DadLife #FamilyLove

There's a difference between making something fun and making it optional. 👊 And before the comments fill up, yes, I'm absolutely here for making non-negotiables fun. Sing the teeth brushing song. Do the silly voice. Turn getting into the carseat into a game. But there's a difference between

Parenting mistakes many of us make: Confusing school with education, thinking parents are the sole source of discipline, and relying on punishment. True learning happens through autonomy and self-discipline. Let's aim for long-term change, not just in-the-moment compliance. #ParentingTips

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Comment, "I want 84" to get links to this podcast episode sent to your DMs When your child stops turning to you, it's attachment displacement, not defiance. Their brain prioritizes perceived survival needs. #ParentingTips #ChildDevelopment #AttachmentTheory #EmotionalIntelligence #FamilyDynamics

Comment "I want 85" to get links to this podcast episode sent to your DMs Breaking the cycle of reactive parenting starts with you. Learn how to heal your own childhood patterns so your kids don't have to repeat them. It's time to do the work. #Parenting #CycleBreaking #AttachmentParenting

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Comment "Send me 86" to get links to this podcast episode sent directly to your DMs Kids love video games because it's where they feel in control. It's a space for their natural drive to learn and be curious. When learning environments consistently override this, it can impact their mental

Comment “set my feelings free” for our new book! If you order today, you can still get it by Tuesday, but it’s almost sold out and we don’t expect there to be copies available if you wait. What are your bedtime tips? #ParentingTips #SleepTraining #KidsSleep #BehavioralScience #ChildDevelopment

Comment "Send me 87" to get links to this podcast episode sent directly to your DMs Let kids move to learn! Standing, dancing, fidgeting—it's all learning. Movement, not stillness, is key for young minds. #ChildDevelopment #LearningThroughPlay #MovementMatters #EarlyEducation #KidsLearning

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Comment "Send me 86" to get links to this podcast episode sent directly to your DMs Kids don't lack focus, they lose curiosity. Our system replaces their natural 'little scientist' drive with 'just get the right answer.' #EducationSystem #Curiosity #Learning #ChildDevelopment #Parenting

New episode of the podcast out about this. Comment “send me 87” and I’ll send you the episode! Discover why educators are pulling their kids from schools. It's not what you think. It's about development, effective learning, and a system built on indoctrination. #EducationSystem #Homeschooling

Kids are meaner? Maybe. But it's not them, it's the environment. We've created antisocial spaces where natural socialization is discouraged. Think child-led learning in natural settings. #ChildDevelopment #ParentingTips #Education #Childhood #Learning #NaturePlay #SocialSkills #RethinkEducation

Youth sports pressure is hurting our kids. Extreme travel leagues cause physical & psychological damage. Prioritize play-based learning over adult-led competition. #YouthSports #ParentingTips #ChildDevelopment #SportsPsychology #HealthyKids #PlayBasedLearning #FamilyLife #SportsTok

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Comment "Send me 88" to get links to this podcast episode sent directly to your DMs Tech is designed to boost wanting, not pleasure. If kids felt satisfied, they'd stop watching. Understand the difference: agitation after viewing means wanting was high, but pleasure was low. #DigitalWellbeing

Kid says 'No!' and throws a toy? It's not about the toy, it's about emotional distress. Don't offer more options; hold the boundary calmly. Their brain is offline—just lead. #ParentingTips #ToddlerBehavior #EmotionalRegulation #GentleParenting #ParentingHacks #ChildDevelopment #ParentLife

Watch to the end. Comment if this would be your nightmare. But hey, the swingset looks nice, right?

If you want a book that has worked on A LOT of dads specifically, comment “I want your book” and I’ll send you a link to get my book. But it doesn’t have to mine! Just read ANY parenting book written in the last 15 years. We can do better guys.

Grab a big old bag of dill sauerkraut and dig into this episode. Easily the most fun I’ve ever had recording an episode. Comment “podcast” for links to watch everywhere… Episode comes out May 12 everywhere

Comment "Send me 89" to get links to this podcast episode sent directly to your DMs Parenting survival hack: When in doubt, tub it out! Get the kids in the bath with toys. They splash, you get to clean the floors, and everyone's happy. It works every time! #ParentingHacks #MomLife #DadLife

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